John Bowlby: Even if it's So Hard, Connect to Your Parts.

John Bowlby: Even if it's So Hard, Connect to Your Parts.

Published on: 06/13/2025

From the moment we’re born, human beings are hardwired to reach for comfort, closeness, and care. We don’t just want connection—we need it.

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Conflict and Compassion

Conflict and Compassion

Published on: 05/07/2025

I don’t smoke cigars, but I do think Freud deserves more credit than he often gets. My IFS coaching clients are often curious about Freud—and who wouldn’t be? Satire of the nutty Austrian is evergreen.

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Passover

Passover

Published on: 04/08/2025

Don’t worry—this isn't scary! It’s just about Passover and a lesser-known Jewish tradition called Mussar that might give you a fresh way of looking at things.

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Learning Curve

Learning Curve

Published on: 03/13/2025

Why do we have parts burdened with the belief that we are expected to know everything?

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